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A lesson in presence at Stanford DEFCON

Hearing former President Tsai Ing-wen speak reminded me that I want to learn both the substance of an issue and how to hold a room while speaking about it.

1 min readTanish Singh Rajpal
Stanford DEFCONLeadershipCommunication
Tanish Singh Rajpal with Supavit Pitaknarongphorn at the Stanford DEFCON photo wall
With Supavit Pitaknarongphorn at Stanford DEFCON on October 7, 2026.

I attended Stanford DEFCON on October 7. One moment has stayed with me more than any other: hearing former President Tsai Ing-wen of Taiwan speak.

I did not follow every policy detail. There is a lot of history and context I still need to learn. But I could feel her command of the room. She spoke with warmth and composure, and the audience stayed with her. I was struck by how much a speaker’s presence can carry a complicated conversation.

I left wanting to understand more of the issues she discussed. I also left with a personal ambition: to explain difficult ideas clearly enough that people want to listen, and to speak with even a fraction of that confidence and grace.

Thank you to the Stanford DEFCON team for bringing together people and perspectives I would not otherwise have encountered.